Friday, February 01, 2008

The Four Agreements


几个星期前,GM介绍了The Four Agreements 这本书.
作者是Don Miguel Ruiz.
听说这本书马来西亚已断货.



简单介绍:-
1. Be Impeccable With Your Word 无懈可击的
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others.
Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.
When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions 不要去假设
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can
to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best 永远做你最好
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick.
Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

No comments: